Meet L1:Photographer.

He just turned 3. He has a camera. And a unique perspective. Have you ever wondered what the world looks like to a kid? Here are some examples.

See more, and what I hope to be a progression of his photography at Little View of a Big World.

L1's 3rd Birthday!

So, officially L1's birthday is tomorrow, but I plan to be busy with playdates, cupcake making, and birthday dinner. You can find his birth story here, and boy, have I learned a LOT since that day.

I'm sorry I didn't get up and move more during my labor.
I'm sorry I allowed them to screw that monitor into your head, and even more sorry for how they carelessly ripped it out when it got tangled in your hair.
I'm sorry I didn't research what circumcision was, but still had it done to you.
I'm sorry for all the times in the past and future that I snapped, yelled, had a complete breakdown in our connection.

Mostly I just want to say: I love you L1, and I can't wait to see what fun it is to be mommy for an amazing 3 year old!

Live to Learn Together

Welcome to the September Carnival of Natural Parenting: We're all home schoolers
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month our participants have shared how their children learn at home as a natural part of their day. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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With back-to-school efforts in full swing by many of my friends, I started thinking about posting my thoughts. Then I saw the invitation to submit for the Carnival of Natural Parenting co-hosted by Lauren at Hobo Mama and Dionna at Code Name: Mama. And I thought I would give it a go.

I have always loved learning. And while I never really hated school, I thought it was a huge waste of time. I constantly got in trouble for reading ahead during "read-aloud" times where students took turns reading from the text book. I would show up for classes on Monday, finish the work for the week, and then skip the rest of the week. It wasn't that I was so much smarter than other people, I just learned differently. Show me once, and I usually get it. I have great respect for different learning styles, the schools I have witnessed just can't.

Before I had kids, a family I nannied for hired me to supervise their education as well. The biggest reason being that their 3rd grader didn't know how to read.  It didn't take me long to figure out he needed to MOVE for his brain to process. If you asked him to sit and read, he couldn't focus. But if you gave him a ball to sit on, or something to work with his hands, he could manage just fine. Spelling and math became a breeze when I would tell him the word or problem, then he ran around the outside of the house, came back and had the answer. It is called the Bodily-Kinesthetic Learning Style (1). He never would have had that kind of opportunity at school. How can a teacher, no matter how great, keep control over 15-30 kids when they ostensibly all have different styles? They can't, and so they "encourage" students to follow the more mellow learning styles: sitting quietly to learn and work.

This was the biggest reason I have always said that I would avoid industrialized school if at all possible. Having made this choice early, my husband and I were able to create our family life as one open to the opportunity to learn from the day we found out we were expecting. When L1 was born, our adventure in learning as a family began. 

We tend to be a bit lazy around the house, so we plan our time carefully, and spend as much time as we can out and about. We do the "normal" things like visiting the zoo and aquarium, but we don't just wander from exhibit to exhibit. We visit areas during Keeper Chats to learn more about the animals. When L1 was old enough, we looked for the ones where a not-too-busy zoo keeper is working, and willing to talk to our boys about the animals, as well as listening to L1 talk about them (even if he isn't entirely decipherable yet). 

This is actually our main method of creating learning opportunities: going places, and talking to the people who know, and are open to having a conversation with a 3 year old, because L1 has a lot to say. We are regulars at a local produce stand, where the manager stops when she sees us to tell L1 his favorite foods are in and where they came from. She also introduces us to any new foods they have that week. When we visit farmer's markets, street fairs, libraries, anywhere, we look for the person in the know to talk with. Then we take that information home with us, and explore it to the extent of our interest in the topic. Which can include finding books to read, a website to explore, or a craft to make. When they are old enough to start asking about different topics, we will search out the experts to talk to and learn from.

I guess you could call it Child-Led Learning. The premise of child-led learning is that children learn best and rise to their full potential when they are allowed to lead the way and explore subjects when they feel ready. (2) Except this isn't just for my son's benefit, we do it because it is our responsibility to continue learning all through our lives. That is the lesson I really want to teach my children. I am not the teacher, we are learning together using the resources that are so abundant in this age of information. We live to learn, and that never stops. It doesn't matter where you are or what you are doing, everything is a learning opportunity when you take away the idea that "school is where you learn". School is a place for certification of your education, which will be important as they grow older. But for now, the world teaches my children in a way no mass education machine can even fathom much less provide. Good thing I can.

1. "The physical (bodily-kinesthetic) learning style."Learning-Styles-Online.com. N.p., n.d. Web. 26 Aug. 2010. .

2. Madison, N.. "What is Child-Led Learning?." wiseGEEK: clear answers for common questions. N.p., n.d. Web. 26 Aug. 2010. .

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Visit Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting!

Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:

(This list will be updated September 14 with all the carnival links.)

• A is for Apple {But right now it's more fun to pick apples!} — Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment has a four-year-old who wisely knows she must forgo the worksheets for now and do things with her mother if she's going to learn.
• Baby Talks — Amy at Anktangle talks, talks, talks all day long to her preverbal baby, about simple things and complexities. (@anktangle)
• Baby University: Little Man, My Teacher — The ArtsyMama shares how her relaxed and patient "teaching" at home resulted in a confident little one when she returned to work.
• Creating a Sensory Garden — A sensory garden has given Marita at Stuff With Thing and her girls practice in math, science, budgeting, fine motor skills, and more. (@leechbabe)
• Despite the Big Yellow Bus — Seonaid at The Practical Dilettante has surprised many friends by sending her kids off to mainstream schooling — but their learning doesn't stop there. (@seonaid_lee)
• Down on the Farm — Megan at Purple Dancing Dhalias describes the multitude of skills her children learn by homeschooling on a farm.
• Early Childhood Education — First Do No Harm — Laura at Laura's Blog provides an incredible list of tips to facilitate learning at home.
• Education Starts At Home — Luschka at Diary of a First Child was happy to realize that learning at home isn't limited to older children. (@lvano)
• Every Day Is A School Day — Summer at Finding Summer lists the ways her family learns in this poem of a post. (@summerminor)
• hands on — the grumbles at grumbles and grunts read her little one Sherlock Holmes in utero. She'll continue to make learning fun now that he's on this side of the womb. (@thegrumbles)
• Have a Happy Heart — Erica at ChildOrganics has days of poop on the couch and oatmeal down the pants when sending her children to school seems like the perfect solution — until she regains her perspective. (@childorganics)
• Home Sweet Home Schooling — Check out CurlyMonkey's Blog for a photo montage of how her kids are learning anatomy, architecture, and more — all at home. (@curlymonkey_)
• Homeschooling — My Needs? — Do you homeschool for the kids, or do you do it for you? Read some thoughts from Home Grown Families. (@momtosprouts)
• Homeschooling: A Way of Life — Kimberly at Homeschooling in Nova Scotia has children who meet learning with enthusiasm and are becoming self-sufficient at a young age. (@UsborneBooksCB)
• How We Homeschooled — Deb at Living Montessori Now details in retrospect how her two lifelong learners spent their homeschooling years. (@DebChitwood)
• Learning at Home With a Preschooler and Toddler — Need some inspiration? Michelle at The Parent Vortex shares her tips and resources for lifelong learning. (@TheParentVortex)
• Learning at Home: Are We All Homeschoolers? — Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings incorporates homeschool ideas even though she plans to send her kids to school. (@sunfrog)
• Learning From Life — Mamapoekie at Authentic Parenting doesn't even have to think about how her daughter learns. She just does it. (@mamapoekie)
• Learning Through Play — What better way to learn at home than through play? Dionna at Code Name: Mama lists the many ways children learn through play, whether they know it or not. (@CodeNameMama)
• Learning With Savoury Pikelets — Deb at Science@Home breaks down how cooking facilitates learning. (@ScienceMum)
• Lessons Learned by Bowling (Yes, Bowling) — What life lessons can you learn from bowling? Ask Jessica from This is Worthwhile. (@tisworthwhile)
• Life is learning, learning is life. — Kristin, guest posting at Janet Fraser — Where birth and feminism intersect, defends the truth that children are hardwired to learn. (@JoyousLearning)
• life learning... — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children found that structured schooling is about teaching, whereas unschooling is about learning, and her family resonated with the latter.
• Live to Learn Together — RealMommy at True Confessions of a Real Mommy knows that children learn in all different styles, so only one-on-one attention can do the trick.
• Natural Parenting and the Working Mom — Jenny from Chronicles of a Nursing Mom shares how natural parenting in the Philippines — and learning at home — includes "yayas" (nannies). (@crazydigger)
• Not Back to School: How We Learn at Home — Denise at This Holistic Life has learned to describe what unschooling is, rather than what it isn't.
• Our Learning Curve — Andrea of Ella-Bean & Co. has a special bookshelf set up where her daughter can explore the world on her own terms.
• School at Our House — Where is learning happening at Kellie at Our Mindful Life's house? It is pouring all over the floor. It is digging down deep in the earth. It is everywhere!
• Schooling Three Little Piggies — Despite the mess and the chaos, Melissa at White Noise lets her children into the kitchen.
• SuperMom versus The Comic Books of Doom! — Mommy Soup at Cream of Mommy Soup realized that if "getting the kids to read" was the goal, it didn't matter what the kids read. (@mommysoup)
• The joy of learning at home — Heather at Life, Gluten Free has a daughter who sees magic in the stars and understands the honeybees. (@lifeglutenfree)
• those who can't teach — Do you need a superiority complex to homeschool? Stefanie at Very, Very Fine wonders.
• Too lazy to unschool? — If unschoolers aren't lazy, Lauren at Hobo Mama wonders if she's too lazy to live her dream of free-form education. (@Hobo_Mama)
• Unschooling the School of Me — Rachael at The Variegated Life considers what she's teaching her son about work as a work-at-home mother — and the extreme work ethic she doesn't want him to emulate. (@RachaelNevins)
• What We Do All Day — Alison at BluebirdMama discovered that it's easier than she thought it would be to quantify how her child learns all day. (@childbearing)
• Who taught that kid ‘exoskeleton’? — Nervous about how you will facilitate learning at home? Don't be - they will absorb things on their own! Joni Rae at Tales of a Kitchen Witch Momma shares her story. (@kitchenwitch)